Testing testing

this is my second blog...the first one is crap plus eveytime i try to post something there are bound to be errors!!! so this is like a trial post...if this blog screws up to, im giving up blogging(if there is such a word)!!!

just finished watching oprah...yes yes im a fan but i aint fanatic! there was a group of women arguing whether they should be "Super-Moms" or "Super-Wives"... some lady wrote an article on how women these days undergo this transition once they have kids...they lose their identity as wives and hop on the bus to total motherhood!!! husbands are neglected and divorce rates go up. well the supermoms say wat they are doing is rite. n thats husbands should wait their turn to be loved!! wtf? n their turn only comes whenthe mom decides, or when the kid turns 11, 18 , 21...whichever age the moms let go.
the supermoms aint doing a great job either if u ask me...they dont even love their husbands, when in reality the primary rship was the marriage between the 2 in the begining!!!
they were saying that they were having less sex but some feel their husbands should understand....n should wait till the moms willingly devote less time to their kids...thats sad cos its like sex is a chore and it seems like only the men are into sex!!! cmon! no wonder men get sick n leave or wander of...women are too busy being mothers and not wives...yes priorties change but it doesnt mean u scarifice ur husband!!! and all the lines like " i try n give him all the sex he needs" is crap...have all the sex in the world cos U want to as well not like ur doing him a big favour...if he needed a favour he has other means....

i guess its wrong to raise ur kids thinking that they are the center of their mother's universes. they should see love between the parents that should in fact give them security...over-mothering is bad too...let the husband have some space for fathering...fathering...thats such a sexy trait... well at least for me...

the women were also condemning the writer cos she said she loves her husband more than her kids. i feel the love between the two is different...i will love my husband romantically and obviously have the maternal instnct to love my kids....n continue to love both esp my husband cos i fell in love with him and had the kids with him!!

well hopefully im as passionate as this when i actually get married...more importantly when i do have kids...

all i know is that my husband is damn lucky bastard:)